I’m the most terrific liar you ever saw in your life. It’s awful. If I’m on my way to the store to buy a magazine, even, and somebody asks me where I’m going, I’m liable to say I’m going to the opera. It’s terrible” (J.D. Salinger, The Catcher in the Rye).
Men lie. Men lie especially if it concerns money and incomes. They are sure that women are focused exceptionally on materialistic values. Well, it is a mistake to think so. Anyway men tend to exaggerate their achievements and deeds. Of course there are many women who buy into all these tricks. But you should remember that it is not the main thing they are interested in.
I agree that falling in love is the most wonderful miracle in the world but sometimes I have irresistible desire to throw a flower pot at those who say so because it appears that for me love turns into a terrible pain instead of doing stupid romantic things in most cases.
I can not say that I have huge experience in love affairs, but the statistics of my relationships is really frightening. The fact is, I have an amazing talent to fall in love with men who seem to have no idea on how to behave normal and not like the ass holes. However, I think I have no right to blame them as it is me who has chosen these inadequate partners from a great number of other candidates. So, when the recent attempt to create something resembling relationship ended up in failure I finally began to understand that the reason of such unsuccessful personal life may be in me and decided to define what mysterious force draws girls, and me personally, to the guys who are unable to answer your feelings.
You can be single or have long successful relations with a woman you really love. Or you can be a married man with a bunch of noisy children. It does not matter, what your marital status is when it comes to looking at the other women. Men make the check out of other girls’ appearance unwittingly; it is in their nature to behave like they are constantly involved in the process of mate selection. However, women often fail to understand this particular feature of man’s character, so some excuses should be invented in order to look at the other girls without being eaten alive by your sweetheart.