Is Positive Thinking Really That Positive?

Recently more and more people tend to come cross the vast number of appeals to think positively on the internet, on TV or in the press. “Keep smiling!” and “Think positive!” are really annoying mottoes actually. Especially when all these posters and banners are spiced with the bright rainbows, animated butterflies, yellow smiles and happy suns. If you see that kind of stuff be sure that it is the business of the “positivist” sect. But these communities which claim they bring positive way of thinking to the people’s lives are actually having the negative effect on the mental state of the others.

Me and My Love. Unrequited

I agree that falling in love is the most wonderful miracle in the world but sometimes I have irresistible desire to throw a flower pot at those who say so because it appears that for me love turns into a terrible pain instead of doing stupid romantic things in most cases.

I can not say that I have huge experience in love affairs, but the statistics of my relationships is really frightening. The fact is, I have an amazing talent to fall in love with men who seem to have no idea on how to behave normal and not like the ass holes. However, I think I have no right to blame them as it is me who has chosen these inadequate partners from a great number of other candidates. So, when the recent attempt to create something resembling relationship ended up in failure I finally began to understand that the reason of such unsuccessful personal life may be in me and decided to define what mysterious force draws girls, and me personally, to the guys who are unable to answer your feelings.